Welcome to AsToldByPhi

where self-growth lives — led by a big sister who’s building in real time.

I’m really glad you’re here.

AsToldByPhi is a space for intentional living, honest reflection, and grounded growth—created for Gen-Z Black women who are learning how to care for their lives with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

This is for the ones becoming.
The ones unlearning.
The ones building something real — even when it feels slow.

Here, self-growth isn’t rushed.
It’s practiced.
It’s protected.
It’s designed with intention.

Love Always,

Phoenix Xiahna

Learn More About Us

We're On Youtube

AsToldByPhi is all about honest conversations, reflection, and growth. On YouTube, we dive deeper into the topics we explore across our platform—wellness, purpose, and intentional living. New videos drop on the 14th and 28th of every month. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay connected.

Lets Work Together

If you’re ready for clarity, structure, and intentional growth, our services are designed to meet you where you are—and help you move forward with purpose.

AsToldByPhi offers personalized consultations, strategy sessions, and workshops that support alignment across your goals, systems, and well-being. Each experience is collaborative, reflective, and grounded in sustainable progress—not quick fixes.

This may be for you if you’re seeking:

Clear goals + actionable systems
Career direction, confidence, or leadership growth
Healthier habits, boundaries, and balance
Student, staff, or community development support
Values-aligned personal or organizational growth

From individuals to schools and community-based organizations, our work bridges personal development with real-world impact.

Explore our offerings and book a session that supports your next season.
Intentional growth starts here.

If you're not sure, book a free 15-minute consult now.